Online Therapy for BPD

Category: BPD Online Therapy | Last updated: March 11th, 2026 | Medically reviewed by:
Dr. Steven Gans, MD
Dr. Elizabeth Lombardo, PhD

Borderline personality disorder (BPD) is characterized by a pattern of unstable ways of seeing oneself, instability in moods and often having problematic and stormy relationships. People with BPD are often impulsive, reckless and have a strong fear of abandonment and rejection. Some will engage in self-destructive behaviors, such as drug abuse and self-harm like cutting themselves.

When suffering from BPD it is common to also experience other mental disorders like depression, eating disorders and addictions. If you recognize that you have these signs and symptoms, you might be suffering from BPD – but you can regain control of your life and emotions!

Our therapy for BPD is based on cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT). With the help of CBT, you will learn to identify and challenge the automatic negative thoughts that underlie your inaccurate perception of yourself. Your therapist will help you to improve the way you interact with others as well as to reduce your mood and anxiety symptoms and your self-harming behavior. This will make it possible for you to live a more stable and harmonious life.

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Reviews

Our online therapy services have received 4409 reviews and the average rating is 4.8 out of 5 stars.

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"The therapist was great."

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Rating: [4 out of 5 stars!]

"So far this seems good. Usually pretty quick turnaround in communication. Not always, but generally. Quality of advice and feedback though so far is great!"

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Rating: [5 out of 5 stars!]

"I am very pleased with every aspect of this program! I got matched with a lovely therapist and I can already feel myself improving."

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Rating: [5 out of 5 stars!]

"I just got switched to therapist called Tania, she started off with encouraging a live session to know about me first and has provided some very insightful information about me already. This made me feel heard and safe, looking forward to our next live session!"

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Rating: [5 out of 5 stars!]

"I was really nervous to start therapy, and choosing a platform felt overwhelming. However, my therapist and the platform has made therapy a really great experience. There's material to look at in your own time which has really helped me set up a routine for self reflection, alongside options on how often and how you want to speak to your therapist. Making the leap to starting therapy was tough, but I know I made the right decision. Would recommend online-therapy.com for anyone unsure of where to start their self healing journey."

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Rating: [4 out of 5 stars!]

"This platform is good if you want to get better but at your own pace. I like that there's not deadlines or a necessary end point for the worksheets, you can go back and review them if you need to reflect again or need to revisit those tools. You have to be able to hold yourself accountable and really want to change, but if you do that, then you will find yourself growing as a person and doing necessary and healthy reflection more and more in your life outside of the platform as time goes on.

I like being able to meet with my therapist once a week. It works great with my schedule and is a good check-in each week where I can truly reflect on my progress and know that I am growing as an individual. I also like that I can send a message whenever, and she will get back to me within 24 hours with a response, so even if something happens before my weekly live session, I can still talk about these things and get advice or even just vent, and know that I will get a response soon.

This experience has opened my eyes to a lot of things in my life that need to change, for myself and for other people. Though I plan to continue on with this journey, and still use the platform, I can see and feel myself growing as a person and have a clearer head about things in my life. I feel happier, healthier, and hold myself more accountable now than I did before I started this journey. Though I'm still figuring out where exactly I'd like my life to go next, I feel a lot better about the future and don't feel fear and anxiety ruling my life anymore. I doubt myself a lot less, and have learned strategies to set reasonable boundaries in my life, and can do that now without feeling bad about it even though they're good things for me.

At times the platform is difficult to work with, for instance sometimes there are connection issues that interrupt live sessions with no way to repair them on my therapists end or mine, and it's difficult to cancel/reschedule a live session with my therapist even though I am within the cancellation timeframe. I've noticed a few spelling errors on different sections as well, but I think with these things being repaired then this would be a perfect platform."

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Rating: [5 out of 5 stars!]

"Isabel has helped me understand and accept myself more. Whilst going through a really difficult time she has remained present, caring and considerate. The unexpected check in msgs are really appreciated. She has a wealth of knowledge and a very warming energy."

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Rating: [4 out of 5 stars!]

"I feel like this website is a good fit for me. It is a little costly but maybe that is what it takes to get good therapists on the other end. I feel that I am being helped. The support is great."

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Rating: [5 out of 5 stars!]

"Lisa is great"

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Rating: [5 out of 5 stars!]

"I believe this online therapy service has a great value for the services they provide. I enjoy the variety of worksheets, as well as, the option for weekly phone or video talk therapy sessions."

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